A Gent Never Tails

Guys, I want to hear from you too. Enough of my gentleman friends have given me a window into the male world of dating. It’s safe for me to say that y’all don’t have it easy when it comes to dating. You have a voice. Let’s hear it! What frustrates you? What could the ladies do better? What are your turn offs and what is a turn on?

A Gent Never Tails From Casual To Committed

Yes, You Can Go From Casual To Committed

I’m from a family of all men- meaning out of all of the grandkids and great-grandkids, I have held it down for the ladies for 30+ years. Not only am I the only woman in two generations, I am also a woman with a good number of male friends.

Once again, I had the pleasure of using those close to me as laboratory mice in my quest to figure out why men do what they do.   So, what makes them chose some women as wifey and others for only physical pleasure, I was given open, honest, and candid answers. Some of which, by my age, I would hope most women know.

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A Gent Never Tails From Casual To Committed

It’s all about Connection

Would you believe it if I told you that one of the main things guys look for when dating is a connection?

Well, a couple of weeks ago, a friend sent me this meme and suggested that I write a blog about this:

How do men distinguished between women they want to wife and women they just want to have sex with?

I took her up on that. Over the next few weeks, I’ll be featuring A Gent Never Tails- a series that is quite the contrary.  The guys are baring all about how things evolve “From Casual to Committed.”

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The Fear of Letting Go

Let it go as passionately as it came.


Moving on is hard.   Flat out, it just is.  In all facets of life.  From graduating from college to moving out of the home you raised your children in.  This is especially true when it comes to matters of the heart.  Moving on from a relationship that’s run its course takes time.  It doesn’t come without hurt whether you or your S.O. is the one to call it quits.Read more

A Gent Never Tails

Oral Sex: “The Ask”

The significance (of oral sex) is simply another form of great pleasure and foreplay.

So, I wouldn’t perform oral.  And he dumped me.  I’ll give him credit, he did warn me that if I didn’t he was going to dump me. Guess he’s a man of his word.

See, but he asked for it… on a regular basis.  There was also a level of discomfort at being asked repeatedly, from early on, for me to do it.  I mean I’m not opposed to doing it, but asking or just expecting it- talk about a turnoff.  Sheesh.Read more